marraige vs spinsterhood!

honey bunny · 7th November 2004, 07:59 PM

hey guys and gals!
a topic of that has been behind a number of conversations recently for me is that of being single!

now, apart from the last few months i have always said that being single is better(but of course i was only saying this to make myself feel a bit better!

). with a few rather stupid mistakes under my belt i have deffinately decided that i am having a better time being single and not looking for a relationship!

whats everyone elses personal opinions?

evilheartedyou · 7th November 2004, 08:02 PM

marriage

I've always loved the idea of growing old with someone and always having someone there.

sigh

All_in_black · 7th November 2004, 08:09 PM

Being single is fine but you dont wanna be a bachelor forever

Lindsay · 7th November 2004, 08:13 PM

i am agreeing with everything all_in_black says tonight.

All_in_black · 7th November 2004, 08:20 PM

Thats because my posts include subliminal messages telling you that I am the chosen one.

Lindsay · 7th November 2004, 08:23 PM

oh i agree

ProzaK · 7th November 2004, 08:49 PM

I dont like the idea of marraige...but if the person I am with wants to get married......then for her....I will.

Becca Bomb · 7th November 2004, 09:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ProzaK

I dont like the idea of marraige...but if the person I am with wants to get married......then for her....I will.

awww

CheekyMinx333 · 7th November 2004, 10:26 PM

What's that old phrase? "Marriage is a great institution. and everyone who wants to participate, should be institutionalized".he-he.

of course, being that i'm eagerly getting things set for my wedding (April 29th!!), I think marriage is great.there's something indescribeably beautiful about finding the one person you can't imagine spednig your life without.

azpazzagus · 8th November 2004, 12:48 PM

i agree.
marriage is lovely. it must feels o secure and nice

secure for kids as well, though i am not saying that single families do nto work because i coem from one...(before anyone calls me a nazi:P)

GemDeLaCreme · 8th November 2004, 02:31 PM

im going for good old marriage.

vic, i know that there is a bloke out there looking at his watch waiting for u too walk into his life...........('scuse me while i chuck up..)

TheSombreroKid · 8th November 2004, 02:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by honey bunny

with a few rather stupid mistakes under my belt i have deffinately decided that i am having a better time being single and not looking for a relationship!

Spoiler:

i didn't think it was that bad

: : Scott : : · 8th November 2004, 02:45 PM

Juliet when we made love you used to cry
You said I love you like the stars above I’ll love you till I die
There’s a place for us you know the movie song
When you gonna realise it was just that the time was wrong juliet ?

I can’t do the talk like they talk on tv
And I can’t do a love song like the way it’s meant to be
I can’t do everything but I’d do anything for you
I can’t do anything except be in love with you

kaleidoscope · 8th November 2004, 03:14 PM

My mum and dad are together and have been for years and years and years.... and they are not married.

They just didnt feel the need to get a certificate, a ring, and a big party to prove that they are husbnad and wife. And they never are going to get married.

And i can't quite decide whether i would like to get married or not... cause i see my mum and dads point, but, say someone made a story out of their lives... i think there would be just that little thing missing. I guess its a security thing..

But, I have never been in a serious relationship, and i don't know how i would react if the situation occured...

I'm kinda scared of being old and lonely.

or,just lonely.

Becca Bomb · 8th November 2004, 07:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by omgwtf

Juliet when we made love you used to cry
You said I love you like the stars above I’ll love you till I die
There’s a place for us you know the movie song
When you gonna realise it was just that the time was wrong juliet ?

I can’t do the talk like they talk on tv
And I can’t do a love song like the way it’s meant to be
I can’t do everything but I’d do anything for you
I can’t do anything except be in love with you

good song

7th November 2004, 07:59 PM	#1 (permalink)
honey bunny Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: none of your goddam business Posts: 1,232	marraige vs spinsterhood! hey guys and gals! a topic of that has been behind a number of conversations recently for me is that of being single! now, apart from the last few months i have always said that being single is better(but of course i was only saying this to make myself feel a bit better! ). with a few rather stupid mistakes under my belt i have deffinately decided that i am having a better time being single and not looking for a relationship! whats everyone elses personal opinions?

7th November 2004, 08:02 PM	#2 (permalink)
evilheartedyou Uh oh! Spaghettio! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: glasglayglo Posts: 1,187	marriage I've always loved the idea of growing old with someone and always having someone there. sigh

7th November 2004, 08:09 PM	#3 (permalink)
All_in_black Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Kirriemuir Posts: 1,873	Being single is fine but you dont wanna be a bachelor forever

7th November 2004, 08:13 PM	#4 (permalink)
Lindsay eighties fan Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Glasgow Posts: 7,594	i am agreeing with everything all_in_black says tonight.

7th November 2004, 08:20 PM	#5 (permalink)
All_in_black Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Kirriemuir Posts: 1,873	Thats because my posts include subliminal messages telling you that I am the chosen one.

7th November 2004, 08:23 PM	#6 (permalink)
Lindsay eighties fan Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Glasgow Posts: 7,594	oh i agree

7th November 2004, 08:49 PM	#7 (permalink)
ProzaK Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The Stoby! Posts: 2,078 Band: welcome home, explorer	I dont like the idea of marraige...but if the person I am with wants to get married......then for her....I will.

7th November 2004, 10:26 PM	#9 (permalink)
CheekyMinx333 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: In the here and now Posts: 177 Band: Involved in a bitter annulment with the bassist of Dudload.	What's that old phrase? "Marriage is a great institution. and everyone who wants to participate, should be institutionalized".he-he. of course, being that i'm eagerly getting things set for my wedding (April 29th!!), I think marriage is great.there's something indescribeably beautiful about finding the one person you can't imagine spednig your life without.

8th November 2004, 12:48 PM	#10 (permalink)
azpazzagus la Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: dundee Posts: 1,806 Band: i used to play cello for the a forest	i agree. marriage is lovely. it must feels o secure and nice secure for kids as well, though i am not saying that single families do nto work because i coem from one...(before anyone calls me a nazi:P)

8th November 2004, 02:31 PM	#11 (permalink)
GemDeLaCreme Mean Girl Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Dundee Posts: 2,412	im going for good old marriage. vic, i know that there is a bloke out there looking at his watch waiting for u too walk into his life...........('scuse me while i chuck up..)

8th November 2004, 02:45 PM	#13 (permalink)
: : Scott : : Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Dundee Posts: 7,138	Juliet when we made love you used to cry You said I love you like the stars above I’ll love you till I die There’s a place for us you know the movie song When you gonna realise it was just that the time was wrong juliet ? I can’t do the talk like they talk on tv And I can’t do a love song like the way it’s meant to be I can’t do everything but I’d do anything for you I can’t do anything except be in love with you

8th November 2004, 03:14 PM	#14 (permalink)
kaleidoscope Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: GLASGLOW Posts: 1,346	My mum and dad are together and have been for years and years and years.... and they are not married. They just didnt feel the need to get a certificate, a ring, and a big party to prove that they are husbnad and wife. And they never are going to get married. And i can't quite decide whether i would like to get married or not... cause i see my mum and dads point, but, say someone made a story out of their lives... i think there would be just that little thing missing. I guess its a security thing.. But, I have never been in a serious relationship, and i don't know how i would react if the situation occured... I'm kinda scared of being old and lonely. or,just lonely.